Hey my beautiful people,
Today I wanna talk about my biggest challenge that I face in my Dom/Sub Dynamic which is distance.
Distance for any relationship whether it is friends, bf/gf, or Dom/Sub can be difficult. It is even harder when physical touch is something that you crave. To feel that person in your arms, play with their hair, their beard, running your fingers from their chest down their arms. Ugh this has actually been one of my biggest challenges. Here are some of the ways that I have coped with the distance issue.
Video chatting on House Party or Facebook Messenger has been a massive help. It definitely isnt the same as seeing him in person but being able to see his face and smile and most definitely the Dom face when I have bratted just a little too much makes my whole world for the better. Lol I find that video chatting is the best way to hold me over till I get to see him in person.
Another thing that is nice is texting or Facebook messaging. This is the easiest thing for us. As it doesn’t matter what we are doing it is normally easier to text then talk. Also being a brat and using Gifs is so much fun!
The last thing that we use is talking in the phone. This is definitely not our first line of communication. Normally this happens if he needs to get ahold of me ASAP or because he is driving and can’t text.
I am working on moving closer to Daddy and his other Sub especially as more serious feelings have came up. Also I would love to not have the distance between us. I have found that I love both of them very very deeply and find that I hate leaving. I feel more at home and at peace when I am with them.
Well that is all for today! Distance is a bitch and distance sucks! It sucks even more when you love the ones that are so so far away.
Until next Time
💋Kitten
