There are two different sides to cuddling the good and the bad. Not everyone experiences the bad but some people do. I wanna take the time to talk about both sides. I often go through both sides as Daddy and I are in a relationship that is kind of like long distance relationship cause we don’t get to see each other very much. I have times where I get really Depresso Expresso after I have been with Daddy. My friend tells me that Daddy is my drug. She honestly is absolutely correct.
The good side of cuddling is Oxytocin. Oxytocin helps relieve stress, lower blood pressure, it can block pain signals, helps you sleep, and most importantly it helps you to connect to your partner. Cuddling your partner also gives you a sense of security and also helps you feel loved. For me when I cuddle Daddy it is all of that. I know the safest place for me is his arms. I know that whenever I am in his arms I don’t have to think about anything and it calms my mind. I always sleep better when Daddy sleeps with me. Oxytocin is the ultimate Love hormone!
Now to the bad side. The bad side shows how much your body relies on the oxytocin. I read an article about long distance relationships and how when they are together their Oxytocin cup fills, but when the one partner leaves the cup starts to empty. After awhile the cup starts running out of Oxytocin and this can cause depression and more. I have went through this with Daddy. If I get extra days and my cup overflows I seem to drop more then normal. When I had covid I went almost 2 weeks with out seeing him. This was bad in many ways. When I am sick I want to snuggle. I wanna know that someone that cares about me is right there and everything will be ok, but also I was really needing that sense of safety. I was really sick and just wanted snuggles. Daddy did his best to video chat me, but it wasn’t the same as cuddles. My Oxytocin dropped and caused me to get really depressed.
So as you can see Cuddles are both good and bad, but ultimately we know they are good.
until next time my loves!
💋Kitten🐈⬛
